Testimonials

“When I was growing up, I always struggled with shame when it came to voicing my desires. I was afraid that if I was open and honest about what I wanted from a partner; they would see me as strange or broken. Working with Anaya, however, helped me to accept my desires as valid. Her open, honest, and caring approach to kink and desire prompted me to take a deeper look at who I am and how I present myself in relationships. She helped me develop the confidence to  voice my needs, and she supported me in overcoming my shame. One thing that truly stuck out to me during my sessions was how passionate she is when it comes to helping others. Anaya will listen to you without judgment and do her best to support you by giving you tangible ways to work through whatever you are struggling with. She is driven to help others, and she holds strong conviction in normalizing kink and supporting people find their way past shame and to expressing their needs in a gentle and honest way.”

— R.M.

“I originally reached out to Anaya for help communicating my kinks to my partner. She walked me through the process while also reaffirming that kinks are normal, and it's ok to introduce kink in the bedroom. Talking to someone about your kinks can be nerve wracking. Anaya made me feel accepted the second I met her. I've now met with Anaya two more times and every conversation has been great. She offers great advice and helps you with whatever situation you may be in. She truly has a gift! I recommend anyone who needs a coach to reach out to Anaya. She is the absolute best!”

— L.D.

“Growing up without the internet and being kinky can be isolating unless you happen to meet a person who has the same interests as you. But even as I got older and the internet made meeting people with similar interests much easier, it was still hard to shake the feeling that my interests were "weird" or "strange." Coaching with Anaya was truly a game-changer for me. She is so kind, open minded and knowledgeable that she really makes you believe in yourself and accepts you for who you are. Anaya helps remove the guilt and shame one might have associated with personal kinks.”

— J.B.

“I’ve been working with Anaya for more than six months now learning about and exploring my kinks. She has helped me learn more about and accept my submissive side. She has also helped me realize that it’s okay to be open with my kinks and that it’s not weird or wrong or anything to be ashamed of. She has also helped me with my anxiety about the world around us and has helped me cope with these crazy unprecedented times. When the world feels over whelming kink is a great way to disconnect and release your mind. I can confidently say that working with Anaya has been a positive experience in my life and I would not be where I am now without her.”

— Andy O.

“After my first session with Anaya I was able to figure out some new ways to help me out. I’ve been in a rut for a while with not being able to enjoy sex with my partner. She gave me some ideas and tools to try out that I never would have thought of. Learning to let go of control in a safe and trusting way gradually. She was easy to talk to and made me feel completely comfortable while talking about some very personal issues.”

— Sara A.